Meet the founder
I don’t have it all figured out—I’m navigating faith, being a queer man, and what it means to be well.
Experience I grew up in a small West Texas town—raised by an immigrant Mexican mother in a deeply Catholic, conservative environment. I knew I was queer early on, but I didn’t come out until I was 27, after serving in the military during Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. I served as a combat engineer, earned a Purple Heart, and was honorably discharged—but I always knew I was meant for something more creative than the life I came from.
After the military, I spent time in the oil fields before fully stepping into that calling—building a career over the next decade working with creatives through coaching, community building, and launching new businesses. At the core of everything I’ve done is bringing people together.
MADE is the evolution of that work. What started as a simple idea turned into a community I’ve been building alongside queer men over the past year—learning in real time what we need, how we connect, and what it means to create something that actually supports us. This work is personal, and it’s what I’m most committed to right now.
If you’re interested in working together—through coaching, creative projects, or just connecting—I’d love to meet you.
Coaching
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Reframing sexual energy as a source of creative direction, expression, and momentum rather than something separate from everyday life.
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Learning to recognize and regulate the nervous system so the body becomes a place of stability, awareness, and power.
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Developing the confidence to create, build, and express ideas that reflect your identity, perspective, and values.
studio
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Flexible support for queer businesses when you need it—whether you’re planning your next event or solving challenges along the way. This focused consultation helps clarify your goals, map next steps, and identify opportunities for growth.
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We create video content for queer owned businesses, including promotional media, experiential documentation, and adult-content-friendly productions, with an emphasis on authenticity and brand-aligned storytelling.
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We run small, focused sales and marketing campaigns to test ideas, improve existing funnels, and refine how queer owned businesses attract, convert, and retain members.
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We support the development of new products, services, and experiences, helping you clarify ideas, structure projects, and move concepts from vision to execution without overbuilding.
MADE BTS
Hey—this is my behind-the-scenes.
This is where I share everything as I’m building MADE in real time.
I stream live on Twitch if you want to tap in and see it unfold, I post videos on YouTube, and I’m on TikTok acting a fool and experimenting creatively. I’ve also got a blog where I’m writing.
I’m constantly creating—testing ideas, using AI, building, failing, iterating. It’s all here.
If you want to follow along, check out the links and come be part of it. Thanks for being here.
Healing at a Bathhouse: A Spiritual Memoir of a Queer Man in Search of Healing
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