Coaching for Queer Men

A program for queer men exploring creativity, embodiment, and leadership.

Our Approach

Our coaching is designed to meet you where you are. Sessions are flexible, focused, and practical — whether you’re working through a challenge, exploring a new direction, or building a skill in real time. Each session includes conversation, reflection, and in-the-moment practice. We focus on three core areas.

Sexual Creativity

Reframing sexual energy as a source of creative direction, expression, and momentum rather than something separate from everyday life.

Somatic Experiencing

Learning to recognize and regulate the nervous system so the body becomes a place of stability, awareness, and power.

Queer Leadership

Developing the confidence to create, build, and express ideas that reflect your identity, perspective, and values.

The Method

This work follows a simple three-part process designed to transform insight into real-world creation.

  • Understanding the nervous system, somatic awareness, and the physiology of safety, arousal, and creativity.

  • Developing the ability to recognize internal states, emotional patterns, and impulses in real time.

  • Applying this awareness toward consistent creative action, resulting in the completion of meaningful work.

What You Create

Participants are guided to develop and complete a creative project during the program.

This could include:

• creative content

• an artistic body of work

• a business or project concept

• writing, media, or storytelling

• a personal leadership initiative

The goal is simple:

something real that exists because you made it.

meet your coach, Ben

Program Format

April Group Cohort

Four weekly group sessions designed for shared exploration and accountability.

Thursdays

April 9

April 16

April 23

April 30

Each session focuses on embodiment, discussion, and creative development.

Group sessions create a supportive environment where participants learn from one another while developing their own projects.

Private Coaching

For those who prefer individual guidance, the program is also offered as a four-session private coaching series.

These sessions follow the same framework but allow for deeper personal exploration and focused development of your project.

Private sessions are scheduled individually.

Contact for availability.

  • “To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow — this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”

    — Elizabeth Gilbert

  • “To realize one’s destiny is a person's only real obligation.”

    -Melchizedek (the Old Man) in The Alchemist